Prison isn't a healthy marriage - From Patti

Hello. I am a prisoners wife and counting.
My husband has been in prison X4. 
I was reading the post by the Mum who said prison doesn't bother her son and I am thinking that it doesn't faze my husband either. It's OK for people to promote the 'stand by your man' thing but where do you draw the line? I love my husband but is this really a marriage when he is spending the majority of it behind bars? Me visiting him in prison all the time is not what I call a healthy marriage. What do you think?